Become the Husband You're Called to Be

…and learn to love your wife, your marriage, your family, and the world in new ways in light of the sacrament of matrimony!
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Discover Rhythms of Work and Play

Be Formed as an Apostolic Husband

Let Your Love Change the World

Marriage Didn't Come with a Manual...

...and you may be wondering what you're missing. 

You don’t want to be drifting apart or pulled apart by a frantic schedule, mismatched priorities, or the lack of space, time, and skills to make progress in your relationship.

You’re meant to be a missionary outpost together with your wife in the world— it’s what you signed up for on your wedding day! 

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It May Feel Like the World is Against You as a Husband

…but God cares. And so do I!

I'm Joseph Gruber, and I learned most about how to be a husband by learning first how to be a missionary.

I served as a Catholic missionary across the country, welcomed seven children into the world, fundraised my salary, got out of debt, and most importantly for you, saw how vital marriage is to the world and learned skills and habits that have made all the difference to our marriage.

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The Plan is Simple Yet Powerful

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Discover rhythms of work and play

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Be formed as an apostolic husband

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Let your love change the world

"This program will help you experience your love for your wife and will facilitate simple profound positive changes. It is an awesome investment in your marriage."

-"Date Your Mate" attendee

"It's worth every penny. The content is fresh and relevant and practical and theologically and philosophically satisfying."

-"Date Your Mate" attendee

"It’s great to understand the purpose of dating and the impact it can have as well as simply putting it as a priority amongst the many demands of life."

-"Date Your Mate" attendee

"The course prompted me to think deliberately about my spouse and her needs."

-"Date Your Mate" attendee

"My wife has loved the homework and the dates I've recently taken her on, has told all her friends about it and was sad to hear the workshop ended."

-"Date Your Mate" attendee

"It was great!"

-"Date Your Mate" attendee

    How You'll Become an Apostolic Husband

    Husband Formation:
    Date Your Mate

    5 Live Video WorkshopsThis five-part series goes into the two basic dimensions or rhythms of marriage, going into how to date one's wife and how to work alongside her. Recordings will also be available (though we recommend attending live!).
    On-Demand Access to the Relationship Foundations CourseFigure out who you are, what your priorities are, and how/when to have important discussions and make decisions.
    Online Membership CommunityRespond to challenges and get to know the other members via an online platform.
    Bonus: Happy Wife, Happy Life Course for HusbandsWe've all heard the expression. Find out the truths and lies behind it.

    Husband Formation:
    Lead Your Marriage

    5 Live Video WorkshopsAccountability, encouragement, inspiration, and a community of husbands like you to grow alongside as we go through the basics of leadership in marriage.
    On-Demand Access to the Relationship Foundations CourseFigure out who you are, what your priorities are, and how/when to have important discussions and make decisions.
    Optional Additional Coaching with JosephAll attendees get the option for additional coaching with Joseph.
    Bonus: Happy Wife, Happy Life Course for HusbandsWe've all heard the expression. Find out the truths and lies behind it.

    Interested in Attending One of the Husband Formation Courses in the Future?

    We will let you know when sign-ups are ready!

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