Get on the Same Page as Your Spouse…

…and start working from a common playbook along with a community of Catholic couples. The Your Outpost Membership offers formation and accompaniment to help you become organizationally healthy and to live out the vocation of holy matrimony more fully!

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Love Your Marriage More and More

Build a Life Your Love

Let Your Love Spill Out into the World

Satan Enjoys Your Conflicts…

…but you don’t. Whether you and your spouse keep clashing, or you’ve given up the fight, or if you feel like you’re dying the death of a thousand paper cuts, it’s not how you want to keep going.

You don’t want to be drifting apart or pulled apart by a frantic schedule, mismatched priorities, or the lack of space, time, and skills to make progress in your relationship. You’re meant to be a missionary outpost together in the world— it’s what you signed up for on your wedding day!

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It May Feel Like the World is Against Your Marriage

…but we care about your marriage.

We’re Joseph and Crystal Gruber, and in our decade of marriage, we served as Catholic missionaries across the country, welcomed six children into the world, fundraised our salary, got out of debt, and most importantly for you, saw how vital marriage is to the world and learned skills and habits that have made all the difference to our marriage.

The Plan is Simple Yet Powerful

Learn to love your marriage more and more

Talk about important things and make decisions every week

Rally around a common goal

Build a life you love

Let your love spill out into the world

How You'll Build Your Outpost

Included in Your Membership

Monthly Live Community CallsAccountability, encouragement, inspiration, and a community of couples like you to grow alongside.

On-Demand Access to the Relationship Foundations CourseFigure out who you are, what your priorities are, and how/when to have important discussions and make decisions.

Bonus: Happy Wife, Happy Life Course for HusbandsWe've all heard the expression. Find out the truths and lies behind it.

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Frequently Asked Questions

And Frequently Given Answers

We're going to be sharing what we'll be doing in our town to build up marriages, as an example and possible blueprint for what other couples could do. And we'll be hosting events in the coming years for members live/in-person, that we'll start planning once we see how large the membership is (and the interest level). But it's good to flip this question a bit, too: you'll be able to give so much more from this membership when the two of you work more and more like a team!

That's pretty much up to you two. We think that many/most of the problems facing married couples can and should be solved by the married couples, so we want to give some principles to help you to do it, but honestly, the application is pretty well out of our hands.

If you're going through serious issues, we may not be able to help with those, or it may take much longer to experience what you would call 'success'. We're not licensed counselors, we're just practitioners of principles that have been handy for us and everyone we've taught so far...

I sure hope so. I (Joseph) wrote it all, and it's based on everything I've learned as a team director in FOCUS, during my master's degree education at the Augustine Institute, and walking with men for 15ish years, as well as my 11 years of marriage to my beautiful bride.

A lot of marriage material seems to be directed to help women, which is great; this is good for husbands and wives, hopefully about equally. One husband we taught mentioned how freeing it was to lead his wife and family this way, and another husband mentioned he couldn't imagine his marriage without what he learned from us.

It usually takes six months or so to get the hang of the basics, and we expect most couples would want to be part of the community for at least a year or so while they start accomplishing goals and working more closely together.

We think the community will be exciting enough that you may want to stay much longer, but you're welcome to stay as long as it helps, and when you outgrow us, we'll be happy to point you to other helpful resources!

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